Dirty Talk
Talking dirty can make some people feel self-conscious, but it’s a fantastic way to enhance intimacy and arousal. Whether it’s giving commands, whispering fantasies, or vocalizing what you want, dirty talk is a completely normal (and often thrilling) part of sex.
Exhibitionism and Voyeurism
Some people get turned on by the idea of being watched during intimacy, while others enjoy the thrill of watching. Exhibitionism and voyeurism don’t necessarily mean public sex—many couples enjoy incorporating these elements in a private, consensual setting, like recording themselves or role-playing scenarios.
Fetishes for Specific Body Parts
We all have body parts that we might prefer over others. But, while it’s normalized to like breasts, bums, or lips, fetishes for other body parts are often considered weird.
Praise and Degradation Kinks
Some people get turned on by hearing praise (“You’re such a good girl”), while others enjoy degradation kinks (“You’re such a bad little thing”). Sometimes, degradation kinks might include name-calling, spitting, “punishments” like spanking, and more.
Fantasy Exploration
Maybe you have a thing for threesomes, cuckolding, or unusual sexual settings. As long as your fantasies are consensual, there’s nothing wrong with them—even if they stay in the realm of fantasy.